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About me and The finding

Hi all, my name is Wendy Mills. I was born as Wendy Horsfall and grew up in a small town named Kempsey in NSW, Australia. I moved to Qld in 2002 and have been here since. I have 4 wonderful children and a wonderful supportive husband. I wanted to share my story and hope that anyone going through similar can take some kind of comfort or even just know they are not alone in there thoughts and feelings.

The Finding    (10/2017)

My story started one night when I was in the shower and as I was washing my breast I noticed a spot was a little sore so I soaped it up some more and felt around and I found what I thought was a lump. There is so much tissue in the breast I wasn’t sure so wasn’t to worried. Over the following few weeks I kept using oils and creams to check if it was still there and each time I half expected it to be gone but this wasn’t the case. Eventually I asked my husband to rub some cream into my breast and see if he could feel anything out of place and he did find it, and wasn’t sure what it was but said it felt different to the other breast in the bottom inner quarter
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